Congratulations - You’re engaged! Take a minute or two to take it all in. Allow the feelings to wash over you. Ah, its magic… And now that that is out of the way, let’s plan your wedding!
Photo by: Vancouver Wedding Photographer, d’Soleil Photography
Weddings come with so many decisions that it’s difficult to know where to start. It can b stressful, but if you know where to start, you’re off on the right foot. Here is a list of the first ten things you should knock off your wedding list:
1. Announce your engagement to the world
Take your family and friends to dinner, or better yet ask them to treat you. Watch your loved ones explode with happiness over your wonderful news. Telling people about your engagement is a lot of fun!
2. Choose a date
Although some couples have a firm date in mind, its best to be flexible. The venue you want to book may not be available for the date you choose, or Grandma might not be able to make it at that time. Flexibility is your friend when it comes to wedding planning.
3. Discuss your budget
Who is contributing to the wedding and how deep are they willing to dip into their pocketbook? Will you be paying for the wedding yourself? Create a budget based on who is contributing and avoid awkward situations later on.
4. Find and book a photographer
We’ll admit it, we’re a little biased, but there’s no doubt the best photographers book fast and early. Use our photographer finder to find your wedding photographer.
5. Find a venue for your ceremony and reception
Many couples have their wedding ceremony and reception in the same spot. Choose a few venues to source out and make reservations soon.
6. Wedding planners
Do you need a wedding planner? They will save you time and stress and maybe a bit of money in the long run. Decide if you have the budget to hire a wedding planner and begin interviewing a few.
7. Start your guest list
The amount of people you can have at your wedding is limited by your venue. Decide in advance if you need to find a larger spot to accommodate more guests.
8. Choose your wedding party
No matter if you are having one couple to stand up for you or ten, you should choose your wedding party wisely. After all, they will be helping you with the planning as well.
9. Save the Date Cards
If you want to be sure that your Aunt Nelly that lives 25 hours away can make it, you should send out Save the Date cards. A quick alternate is a Save the Date email.
10. Start looking at wedding dresses
You’ve probably been standing in the window of the bridal shops, nosed pressed up against the glass, for quite awhile now. Trying on wedding dresses is one of the most fun parts of planning your wedding. Enjoy the process. You’ll know THE dress when you see it.
11. Book your engagement photos
Here’s a bonus - we couldn’t help it:) The period leading up to your wedding marks a time in your life when you feel the most beautiful. Book engagement photos with your wedding photographer of choice, and get to know his or her style and process.
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Photo by: Vancouver Wedding Photographer, d’Soleil Photography
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Yes, booking a wedding can be stressful, but it’s also a lot of fun. And now that you have these first ten things knocked off, you’re off to a good start!







